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CONFIDENCE IS KEY and is SEXY

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Are you a confident person?  Well confidence is a very important of self for you to work on and develop.  As one of those old saying goes, “if you don’t believe in you, then who will?”  Having confidence is a very sexy trait to have.  It also showcases intelligence, self-awareness, strength and dominance.  Here are five things, I think having a good amount confidence can help with.

1. Assertiveness

2. Attraction

3. Low self-esteem

4. Security

5. Shyness

For one to have at least something in life that they are confident about will help you to have a happier life.  Whether is a talent, skill, work ethic, knowledge, religion or appearances, having confidence in yourself is sexy and have a refreshing appeal about it.  So if you are someone with low self-esteem, it would be a great idea to seek a life coach or a good friend or family member to be your stone who showcases their standout appeal you want to be apart of you.  Never be too shy to ask for help or assistance, for the quicker you seek help the much better you will be down the line.  The more you know about yourself, your limits, and what you are able to do if you put your mind to, will enhance your confidence.

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Confidence can be the decisive factor to a promotion, being on a sport team, getting that new job or even a partner in life.

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Definition:

Confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself. Arrogance or hubris in this comparison, is having unmerited confidence—believing something or someone is capable or correct when they are not. Overconfidence or pre-sumptuousness is excessive belief in someone (or something) succeeding, without any regard for failure. Confidence can be a self-fulfilling prophecy as those without it may fail or not try because they lack it and those with it may succeed because they have it rather than because of an innate ability. (Excerpt via Wikipedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confidence

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Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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The ART of SELF-CONTROL

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Can you control yourself?  Can you control on minimize your emotional bond something on command or after relative factors?  How well do you know yourself?  These are a few questions people in control of their lives and abilities can answer easily.  We as people should work on discipline and teach our children the art of self-control.  It’s a very useful tool that can help you within your life.  Having self-control helps in many factors in our lives such as quitting a habit, ending relationships, knowing what your values are in situations, staying focus, motivation and much more.  When you are in control you can always dictate your outcome more towards your liking.  In life somethings are unavoidable, but wouldn’t it be a strength and great value to have when you can turn on or off your actions to various situations that includes your involvement?

Definition:
Self-control is the ability to control one’s emotionsbehavior, and desires in order to obtain some reward, or avoid some punishment. Presumably, some (smaller) reward or punishment is operating in the short-term which precludes, or reduces, the later reward or punishment. In psychology it is sometimes called self-regulation.
(Excerpt via Wikipedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-control 

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Richardo Wilson

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TALK LESS | WRITE MORE | ACT PRECISELY

TALK LESS | WRITE MORE | THINK SMARTER | ACT more PRECISELY.

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I am starting to notice…running my mouth less will get me so much more effective results.  I also notice writing more words will get me much more attention especially when you add value.  Just keep that in mind as you progress in works.  Now it does depends on what goals are.  Think about TV shows and fillers, we hate them.  Sometimes they have to be created, not every show can be hard-hitting each and every time throughout a season or a series.  So upon blogging or writing, there will be those days fillers works.

But if you talk/rambling less, but write shorter and position to act smoother it will lead to better results.

This is a lesson I am learning, and keep trying to get on point day after day, week after week, until I create a habit of it.  I shoot videos for YouTube and write on my blog, but they systems are not the same.  WordPress value words and more words, but YouTube values fewer words, a more precise stimulation.  So me hitting the balance is a tough task, but I am learning and training.

Q: What do you think?  Are you writing more and talking less?  Are you working on adding much more value to your work than trying to say too much for quantity sake?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson