I want to start my post of with an excerpt of poem, that I came upon.
"In the world of fear,
Listen for the voice,
The one who hears,
Before fallen were your tears"
Quote via "the poet" @jixifox
In the world we live in today, and even in the past, who is that voice for you that shines a light on your day. When the world is uncertain, is there someone that brings you to ease? Even if it was to get through one day at a time.
I can say for me, it’s a my brother & a friend (I feel I know like forever) that I feel we can chat about anything. It’s usually a pleasant talk of openness. Of course mostly the conversations starts a bit on edge, as passengers awaiting to board a train. The conversation then starts to head into a direction and follow a route as things begin to roll on track.
Just the voice alone does it for me. It’s like a calming feeling that if I am going through something it makes me just forget about it and get back on course to be myself.
*If you need a voice to speak to you, hit me up. I am always open to talk and always been a person to help and assist other calm their fears, doubts and anxiety.*
Finding clarity in life is a quest. We all have a purpose, or a reason for being here. Our times may be short or slightly extended, so are we keeping tabs on who we are, or will we continue pretending? Self love is the key. What do you think of yourself? Does others thoughts about you matter? What is the inner you like?
I trust this post reach you well, as I too have had these questions. Mentally I had to tackle my thoughts, memory with reflections, as I aim for clarity. On a mental note, I practice self love much more this days. I treat my mind and body as special vessels that carries me through the day.
My delivery of words have change, I listen a lot more than I speak. My mood with language has adopted new highs, for with reading my books and unlock the knowledge of others, I have became a better version of me. You can do it too.
Read for 10 mins a day
Go for a walk for 15-30 mins (just get up and go)
Meditate for a few minutes per day (just a few minutes of silence will help your nerve)
Be sure to breathe (inhale and exhale)
Drink more water
A big opportunity for you to do, is find things that inspires you. Just think of things you adore, you love, that might make you smile. A simple google share can do. Or step it up a bit more, search for inspiration on instagram and pinterest.
As everyone is on a journey in life whether you know what it is or not, you are on a quest. What does that mean really? Are you trying to find happiness, love, career, fitness, money, independence, education, understanding, and/or creativity? There are so many paths, and as we growth and experience life we focus on different goals.
Our experiences, whether it’s trauma, emotions, sadness or happiness guides us to self discovery and self improvement to grow to overcome obstacles life throws at us.
I know when I was growing up, I was very informed by other’s actions and careful listening on what life may pan out to be for me. At age 13, I really had serious understanding of what I wanted and the steps I would need to take to get there. But of course in life, things happen, the path changes, unexpected events happen and changes our direction. I can say I had a more discipline background and upbringing that made me fight harder to not go rogue from my projections.
With taking a great amount of logic classes, psychology classes, being outside, living in New York City, I was exposed to so much understanding that help me manage my emotions and actions. I find those event invaluable for not many can navigate well without any guidance of parents, mentor or etc. It was me and google.com and my high level of curiosity and craving for knowledge that took me places.
I KNOW WHAT I WANT IN LIFE
I want happiness and peace among anything else. I definitely knew with my high level of experiences I wanted to give back and help others discover their potential. And to this day I can say it’s my top skill, and I feel extremely happy to bring that quality to my work going further and my website. I want to create this safe place of resources, ideas, examples and more that people can see that many things are possible.
I had a moment while writing this, that I remembered telling myself at young age, that based on where I am in my life or career at certain age, I was going to have a specific goal. It’s so weird to see this coming through and that’s where my life is leading.
It’s like your value or purpose in the world. What’s the legacy you are leaving on the world and how people will remember you. What have you contributed to the world? I am now expanding on this path in my life. When I first created this site, the message was focused on originality/authenticity, self-expression, self-defining motions based on real actions in “the real life/real world”. Who is the real you? What do you want to do? Where do you want to go or is going? When are you going to do this? Why do you this or want to do this? How are you going to do this?
That’s the biggest thing you can do for yourself is ask those questions?
Who, What, Where, When, Why & How.
Get a notebook and pencil/pen…start your journey here..
There are more actions to come from my site that will help you get your feet wet, being who you want to be. The real you.
So my question for you is, do you know what you want out of life? Share your thoughts and opinions with me… 🙂