I am sorry but I have a bone to pick with the women on the world. If one of you or a bunch of you are reading this right now, I am definitely talking to you. Ok, let me get this disclaimer part out-of-the-way. If you complement your husband, boyfriend, son, brother, or even church brother, that’s not who I am talking about. That is what you are supposed to do already plus if you have love in your heart it is somewhat expected and appreciated, also I bet you get compliments back from them also.
I am talking about the average everyday Joe of a guy you see at book store, outside, at the gym, or even at the supermarket. They are who would love to hear something nice and decent for once. I know guy are always hollering in at you and even taking it to another level being disrespectful and vulgar, but not all men are the same. You can’t judge all men based on the random “NOOB” on a man you see on the street with their pants down, drinking, and cursing, while yelling out or starting out a conversation with, “What’s up shorty?”, “Hey you have a boyfriend, because I want you…(without getting to know you first or striking up a good enough decent opener like, Hi or Hello, My name is ….),” or even “Hey you got a fat butt or big boobs, I want to take you out.”
Although a man is a very visual creative and the primate side of us does tend to jump out at times, where are the efforts of a woman to at least go out of her way and try to just be a nice person. Even if it comes with harsh terms for a woman would then say if they do compliment a guy, he is automatically going to think she wants him or this and that. I go back to my previous statement, not all men are the same. If that is true then surely you should learn how to upgrade your speech and language, and respond firmly and kindly. A response such as, “I am sorry, I spoken for, I just wanted to give you a man of the world a bit of credit for being decent.”, or “I am glad you enjoy my approach by actually giving you a compliment I think you deserve or I just wanted to say, but I am ok, thank you.” There are many ways to say something back nicely, or if he persist, you can jump right back into your natural defense mechanism of blowing them off, cursing, ignoring or etc.
But please ladies of the world, do your part and try something new today, and give more compliments. I don’t say it has to be everyday, but at least a natural kind compliment per week would actually make a guy feel welcome and appreciated in the world. And if you are somehow in a bad neighbor or not many good men to give compliments to, then get out of your environment and go exploring a bit, and I bet you will see a guy worthy of a nice compliment.
Be nice and contribute.
What do you think of this post? If you were to reflect on your past, could you really say you actually honestly gave an enough to compliment a guy naturally without even wanting him?
Thanks for reading, my so-called Public Service Announcement, slash rant, I just want to make the world a better place, and yes indeed a man have written this post.
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