Tag Archives: Psychology

Jan 4 2013

4 Lies I Try Not To Tell

Liar Liar

Liar Liar (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I am not much of a liar, but there are some lies I wish I didn’t have to tell.  Sometimes we just have to lie, whether it’s a white lie or just the truth in disguise of a lie, here are my four lies I wish I didn’t have to tell.

Lie 1 – I Don’t Love You

Clearly I am in love with you, but I have to tell you I am not so you can go.  It pains me to lie to you, but I just can’t be with you, and as much as I want to be selfish and have you all to myself and the misery and fights we might have, I have to let you go. Bye.

Lie 2 – I Am Not BUSY…

I really hate saying this to friends and family that I am busy, but clearly I am busy, if I told you my goals and aspirations and you are not even trying to help me get there so I would have more free time.  I have to try to be human, say I am not busy in hopes that we can actually hang out or you don’t think I am a robot.  But I am busy, I am busy chasing my dreams, whether it’s going to school, working, being a music artist or a writer/blogger, I am busy.   Sorry I lied.

Lie 3 – I Can’t Help You

Sometimes I have to tell people the truth in which they see I have the talent and skills to help them in life, but I turn around and say I can’t help them when I actually can.  The fact is mostly I can only help the people who wants to be helped, and wants to work hard, instead of someone who just wants you to do all the work and reap the benefits in life.

Lie 4 – I Do Sleep/Have a Social Life

Shakira (left) and Knowles (right) in the musi...

“Beautiful Liar” (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Going back to being busy, If all or most of my time is spending working or chasing my dreams, when do you think I have time to sleep when there is some much things left to do in the day?

I hope you enjoyed the lies I try not to tell, for we all lie in some way of form.  Sometimes the words of honesty slips, or even can be taken that, we do have the power and energy to do things we say we can not, we just choose not to do them or apply the discipline to do so.

BONUS LIES:

  • - To the girlfriend or wife…”You are not fat”
  • - To your kids…”It’s just not truth”
  • - To your boss…”I was not late”

What are some lies you wish you didn’t have to tell?  What do you think of my lies?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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Dec 15 2012

Strategy and Consistency vs A Zombie Apocalypse

Melbourne Zombie Shuffle

Melbourne Zombie Shuffle (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Strategy and Consistency is the key to win.  I am starting my 2013 Milestones early.  Forget about the end of the world, if I comes it comes.  If a Zombie Apocalypse happens as well, I am ready for that too.  I have a shiny cool sword that I am dying to master as a swordsman/ninja.  But beyond of the humor, to achieve the goals I want next year, strategy and consistency will be my major tools to win.

I am lucky to have natural talent, creativity and a tremendous work ethics in embedded in me, and with new measurable focus, I shall be standing to achieve some great milestones for 2013.

Are you starting your goals early?  What are your main focus for the new year?  What are your keywords or motivational words of 2013?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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Oct 19 2012

There Is This Girl I Like

Sexy Women

Sexy Women (Photo credit: memoflores)

Ok, so there is this girl I kind of like, well shoot not kind of like her, but actually like her and is pretty interested.  I mean I know the right way to go about it, but is it wrong to feel sort of shy about it?  Is it wrong to like in the gray area of things and see if something will spark over time, or should I nip it in the bud and go for the answer now?

I can give some of the best advice on the relationships, but when it comes to me, there is a science to things before I approach things.  I am never lost options in relationships and talking to women or so, I just choose not to waste time or cross a border I know that may not be reversible.  Courting a woman has been out of my repertoire for quite sometime, so I believed I have really changed from my pass ways of doing things.  I have developed a more unique approach.

Postcard - Sexy Woman writing a letter

 (Photo credit: Rev. Xanatos Satanicos Bombasticos (ClintJCL))

I try to make each new encounter interesting and exciting.  Personally I think, using the same technique and same logics is pretty general and too common.  To ask the same questions, to go to the same type of venues, or talk about the same things.  Why not enhance your life by doing something more personal and block the world’s influence on how you should go about things.  This logic or philosophy could be applied to almost anything, how we cook, how we train, how we live, or even how we learn.  Shall we all do it the same way and it suppose to give us different or more personal results?

Anyways, so back to the girl.  Well let’s rephrase that and refer to her as this pretty lady, or pretty woman, for she surely is one.  But there is a twist to the story, there is not only one woman, there is two.  There is a pretty girl at work I think I like, there I got saying think.  There is this pretty girl at work I like, and there is a pretty woman I like outside of work.

But the question remains, I wonder if she or they like me?  So the answer is something I seek, I guess

What do you think of the post?  What do you think I should do?  Have this question or logic ever popped in your head?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

Sep 14 2012

Tears Dripping Down My Face

A toddler girl crying

A toddler girl crying (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

In the state of dreamland, anything is possible.  I had a dream fresh out of a real life situation or reality television drama.  I was crying my eyes out as I had situation with a said ex girlfriend in which I had a kid with and I was trying to make it right with her for the child sake, but she making it hard.  It was so crazy the depth and feelings I was expressing in the situation and it just had that real tone of love and parenthood within in it.

These things happen everyday in real life.  In my life, a situation like that is less likely to happen, for I am not the crying type of person.  I takr hard times and the struggle like a chip on the shoulder and keep it moving and work for the best.  Its the most vulnerable I have ever seen me or even dreamt me being like.  It was so surreal and scary.

Has this ever happen to you?  Do you know of anyone who have ever been in this situation?  Have a dream have ever scared you like this in any subject manner?

Let me know, share.

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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Jul 17 2012

Success Is Within You [Real Life Quote]

Success at Any Price (1934 film)

Success at Any Price (1934 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Success is within you [Real Life Quote]

“Success is within everyone, and only you can let it free and begin to live it.]

Although others may help you in your attempts to success, the true success is within you and you believing and working to achieve it everyday. When I mean everyday, I do mean everyday. You have to work, eat, slept, and breathe success. It’s what you want, your dream, your goal, your fantasy.

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Mar 6 2012

Acceptance, Don’t Lie To Me

JOE "THE BUFFOON" BIDEN IS AT IT AGAIN

JOE "THE BUFFOON" BIDEN IS AT IT AGAIN (Photo credit: SS&SS)

When someone usually says something to me in any sense of a compliment, I usually believe it is BS.  Maybe I secretly have trust issues, or I haven’t gotten over my past, or just maybe I really just can’t believe anything people say to me has any value.  I am not trying to say I am mean, but I give lots of compliments to others, but I expect nothing back from them.  They usually take it to the head as they are the “ish” or something, but I usually can tell whether someone is lying or so.

This post came about due to my boss asking me to work some extra hours, and to be it’s not a big deal, as most of my bosses always wants me to work extra shifts or time frames for them (I don’t know, but I really think I do), but to me, I just like working period.  I don’t like the feeling of just sitting on my ass not doing anything.  I won’t be learning, I won’t be exercise, I pretty much won’t be living a healthy lifestyle.

Either way here are some of the things say to me that based on who they are I just don’t believe, “hey your photos are DOPE”, “You are super smart man, I wouldn’t even have thought of that”, “Oh my GOD, how did you do that?, you are so talented”.  I find those generic even if that’s the personal natural and honest reaction or compliments, I guess I want something more.  I feel the right person has not discovered who I really am and what I really have the potential to do.

Sorry for the tangent, but back to the boss.  Just recently, like really recent (*smiles), my boss approached me after I had agreed to come in to work said to me, “Richardo,w hen you are here things gets done, and mostly better than expect or could have imagine, you are efficient.” as much as I think he was just being kind and that of a boss telling an employee to boost their morale to feel good about themselves, I actually felt good about those words.  I actually really pride myself on how efficient and effective I am to certain things I do.  Forget about all the results, but the progress of getting it down it what is worth more to me than anything else.

We can all run a race or take a test, but it’s how we got to the winning result that makes us a champion, for there are so many ways to cheat.  Like I was saying before, I am very self-aware and if anything seem too generic or commonly said, I find it fake to me.  Usually people give me compliments just to ask for favors or for free labor in return.  I so hate that.  I like to help others, but how about just being honest about your intentions first.

Either way, sorry for another ramble if so.  I planned this post to be short, but then my fingers continued to beat the keyboard to death, then this extended post with born. :)

I wish everyone well, and hope you find acceptance and self-worth or people find the true you.

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson