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How many of us in life do not want to settle for less? There are many, but who actually settles for little that they are worth? There are many also, who say one thing and do another. I told myself from a young age that, that people who settles for less will not be me. I don’t care about the struggle and the pain, it’s comes with reaching your goals. I am not saying it’s terrible of a life for people who have settled and not achieve what they wanted, for life and the world is a tricky thing. Not everyone can and will achieve the same goals, but to be the one that does, makes a very big difference and is a big deal.
My family, very little to no time have they ever really asked me what I wanted from life and showed their support in my achieving such things, but they would want me to help them on all the small things and major things they can’t do on their own or really needs someone help to accomplish in which I always to at least 95% try to do. I am only one man with big dreams, big goals, with no help, but yet again, just I alone can change possibilities for the greater good for others. When I am stress and feel defeated, who do I lay my head to rest on? Who is there to rub my feet or back after a 48 hours of no sleep trying to do for others in which others will not do for me, while still trying to keep at my goals? There is no one but GOD and myself that works hard on those details but me.
Most people think about them, or their emotions, instead of asking, hey I wonder how this affects someone else, or am I asking too much of someone and not worrying about how they truly want to react to others request.
Sometimes your friends and family will never understand, they will never ask the questions you have answer for to make them believe that you are going after your dreams and trying your hardest not to give up. They will just take from you, as you give to them, and time after time come back and wonder why you are not doing something they are actually holding you back from doing.
It’s like Will Smith said in the song, “Parents Just Don’t Understand“, for they really don’t depending on the family you from. Ambitious family wants more from their children and Low level family, don’t see the point why the children wants to reach and accomplish goals in their lives. I guess it’s just the times and the technology of today’s world that changes the sphere of events, switching from mere possibility to probabilities, in which possibilities are just a gamble, a roll of the dice while probabilities are more of how likely based on factors you will be able to accomplish this task or goal.
I find it strange how the same people who wants to be happy and need the help of others to be happy, are the same people who denies happiness and the lack of understanding for that person wanting to be happy and actually helping them achieving it.
Do your family or friend believe in you? How many of your family or friends support your goals or what you want to accomplish in life?
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