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We as people can be harmful, hard-headed, stubborn and insecure and more other bad things to ourselves to not allow us to enjoy living our lives and loving someone. I am not wrong for saying, we all just want someone to love, someone to call our own. It’s very important to have such a security in life to know who you can depend on and who cares for you greatly.
Some of us be saying stupid remarks, like oh if someone ain’t going love me for who I am then they don’t need to be with me. You are selfish, think about loving the person first. You just want and not give, that’s kind of sad. We all have to compromise sometimes for the better good of both parties. Now some relationships may not work a certain way or won’t work now but later, but it’s your job to figure it out, seek the best option for you, and not what everyone else is doing in the world, they are not you.
I know I might be going off on a tangent right here, but we want what others want most of the times. That lovely smile, that nice car, that big booty, that good credit, but everything you see is not what it really is and you don’t know what that person has sacrifice to have such a clean outlook or appeal. Relationship is work, and loving someone is a full-time job. If you want love, you need to love yourself first and then love someone, then you might be surprise to see how great of a love you will receive back.
Not all love are the same, and come back as much as you would want, but you are receiving the love in which that person can offer. It can get better, you can get worse, but it’s knowing the person is trying to love, it determined to love better and working at it is what it is all about. You just don’t get an A on a test or in a class, you work for it, you come to class on time, you study, you educate, you go in aiming for the best results and keep at it until you get the results you need.
We all want love, and someone to love, but love yourself and love someone and you will soon come to see someone will love you just as well or even more.
how do you feel about love? Do you currently have some relationship jitters? Do you feel you are loved by someone?
You can always talk to me, leave a comment, send me a message or email and we can talk it on out…
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